And when it comes down to it, I have to be pro-choice. Pregnancy changes you forever–and not just because you have a child, but because your body looks and functions in a COMPLETELY different manner after having a baby. I can’t, in good conscience, say that someone who does not want a baby should be forced to gestate and deliver one.

And then, on the other hand, what about fathers’ rights? We only hear about deadbeat Dads, but there are PLENTY of men who are good fathers and who want their children. They should have a right to do that.

And then I come back to my whole “not forcing someone to carry a baby she doesn’t want” concept. It’s a vicious circle and I can’t reconcile myself to just one pat answer. I feel too many different ways about it.